Most states allow a little flexibility in determining who can legally conduct a marriage ceremony. This allows individuals to choose an official that best matches their personal beliefs and needs. In general, a wedding is considered legal if the official is certified by the state to perform such ceremonies.
This certification is usually extended to legal officials such as judges, magistrates and justices of the peace as well as religious leaders such as ministers, rabbis and priests. Many states also allow the county clerk and/or mayor to perform a wedding ceremony as well.
To locate an authorized official, couples may start by asking their local clergy, even if the couple doesn’t belong to a specific church. Many clergy members are willing to perform wedding ceremonies for parties outside of their congregation however, the ceremony will be done in accordance with the clergy’s specific religious affiliation so try to get as close as you can to your personal beliefs.
Couples that are not religious or that follow a non-traditional belief system (pagan, spirituality, etc.) may have difficulty finding a clergy member willing to perform the ceremony, and may prefer to have a legal official officiate their wedding. In this instance, couples are advised to contact their local government for help in finding a suitable alternative. Ceremonies performed by parties not certified by the state will be considered invalid .