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Military Divorce

One of the standard pleadings in a divorce petition is a declaration or denial that one or both parties are active duty members of the U.S. armed services (or her allies). The reason for the boilerplate language is the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act, which entitles active duty service members to delay a divorce (or any civil litigation). But it’s not just timing that is affected by a party’s military service. Dividing retirement accounts, determining spousal support and setting child support can also be affected by a party’s military status.

Servicemembers Civil Relief Act

Under the provisions of the federal Servicemembers Civil Relief Act, a court can delay legal proceedings for as long as a service member is on active duty and for up to 60 days thereafter. This includes a divorce.

Service and Jurisdiction

Even getting a divorce on filed and moving forward can be a bit tricky if one party is in the military. An active duty spouse, like any other spouse, must be personally served with the divorce documents in order for the state court to have jurisdiction over him or her. A spouse serving overseas and/or deployed will be nearly impossible to serve. They can voluntarily accept service but if they do not, you may have to wait until they return stateside to start the divorce process.

Residency and Filing Requirements

Military members and their spouses will generally have three options for where to file for divorce:

  • State where the spouse filing resides
  • State where the military member is stationed
  • State where the military member claims legal residency

Property Distribution (including Pensions)

Division of marital assets and debts typically depends on whether the jurisdiction applies community property or equitable distribution theories, and whether there was a prenuptial agreement. Division of retirement accounts and benefits is handled in the same manner and is usually divided by use of a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO). A military pension, however, is handled differently and is governed by the Uniformed Services Former Spousal Protection Act. The USFSPA authorizes direct payment of a portion of a military retirees pay to the former spouse and extends some base privileges to certain former spouses.

The military pension can still be considered separate property or partially separate (non-marital) property, depending on the date of marriage, date of accrual and state law. Up to 50% of a service member’s retired pay may be awarded to the other party in a divorce. State law  (and the court) will determine the exact division of the retired pay. The award must be couched in terms of percentages as opposed to specific dollar figures.

USFSPA permits a former spouse to receive his or her percentage of the retired pay directly from the finance center, based on the number of years married concurrent with military service. The computation of the total amount of retired pay attributable to a service member is made based on his or her rank at the time of retirement, not at the time of divorce.

Former Spouse’s Military Benefits

Under the USFSPA, a former military spouse may be eligible for full military medical, commissary and exchange privileges after a divorce. In order to qualify for said benefits, the marriage must have lasted at least 20 years; the service member spouse must have served at least 20 years of service creditable for retired pay and there was at least a 20 year overlap of the marriage and the military service (i.e., if a 45 year old soldier retires after 20 years of service and then marries, his wife would not be eligible for these benefits if they later divorce at age 65).

And if the spouse remarries, eligibility for these benefits of a former military spouse is terminated. The benefits are, however, revived if the subsequent marriage ends in divorce.

Child Support and Spousal Support

Determination of spousal support and child support in a case involving military pay can also be a bit more complicated than the norm. In addition to salary, any support calculation must take into account military allowances for quarters, rations, COLA and specialty pay.

All military members have a duty to provide support for their children, as well as their spouses, so the military quite simply allows wages to be garnished in order to ensure the payment of proper support.

Each branch of the military has its own rules which specify or suggest certain amounts for spousal support and child support. It is only the court of civil law that can grant the divorce and establish a legally enforceable support order.

Any military or non-military spouse contemplating divorce or other family court action is best-advised to seek assistance from a divorce attorney with experience handling military cases.

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Fault Divorce

Fault divorce (or at-fault divorce) was the traditional notion of divorce in which one party was required to prove that the other party had committed some wrong-doing which resulted in the breakdown of the marriage. The specific wrong-doing was referred to as the “grounds” for divorce. Prior to 1970, all U.S. states had at-fault divorce [...]

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No Fault Divorce

No-fault divorce is a legal dissolution of a marriage which does not require proof of wrong-doing by either party. No-fault divorce laws allow a court to grant a divorce requested by one party to the marriage, without showing some sort of malfeasance by the other and even if the other party does not want a [...]

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Modifying a Divorce Decree

When a divorce is finally over, both parties generally breathe a sigh of relief – whether the divorce was quick and easy or long and complex. This relief is tied to the resolution and closure afforded by a divorce decree. But wait! Divorce decrees can be modified, even after they are considered “final”.  So, is [...]

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Social Security Benefits after Divorce

Although a divorce court can and will divide retirement benefits such as 401(k) accounts, pensions and IRAs, it cannot divide Social Security benefits. And for many couples, Social Security benefits will make up a considerable portion of their retirement income. In a long-term marriage, one spouse (often the wife) may have stayed home to raise [...]

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Estate Planning After Divorce

When married couples execute wills and other estate planning documents, they generally leave a majority of their assets to their spouse (especially in the case of a first marriage) and name their spouse as the decision-maker for financial and healthcare decisions in the event the other spouse becomes incapacitated. Divorcing or divorced couples, however, probably [...]

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Jurisdiction – Where to File?

In most divorces, the decision of where to file is not terribly difficult. You file in the county and state where you live, where you lived as husband and wife. A wrench (sometimes small, sometimes large) is thrown into the divorce plans, however, when the divorcing spouses do not live in the same county and/or [...]

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After Divorce

For many couples and former couples, the legal considerations don’t stop at the signing of the divorce decree. Modification of Divorce Decree If financial or other circumstances change after a divorce, the original divorce decree can often be modified. Modifications happen generally with child custody, visitation, child support and alimony. Unless there was fraud in failing [...]

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Filing for Divorce and Divorce Litigation

For very simple divorces in which you and your spouse are in agreement, and have no children, you may be able to handle the paperwork yourself. If your divorce involves children or financial assets that the court must distribute, then you should hire an attorney. Also see how to file for divorce and the divorce process. [...]

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Planning for Divorce

Counseling Many people choose to undertake marriage counseling prior to considering a divorce. Often, a good, experienced counselor can help a couple work through relationship issues and begin to repair rifts. If couples counseling is not successful, individual counseling through the divorce process can still be beneficial to husband, wife and children. The actual divorce can [...]

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Considering Divorce: Types of Divorce

Depending on your circumstances, there are a few different types of divorce (also called dissolution in many states). Which route to take all depends on where you live and whether or not you and your spouse can come to an agreement. Summary Divorce – Some states will allow a simplified divorce process if the parties [...]

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Know What to Look for in a Divorce Attorney

by New York Family Law Attorney, Michael Cruise A divorce proceeding is a stressful experience. It can be all the more distressing if you have hired the wrong lawyer for the case. You need to be careful while choosing a Suffolk County divorce attorney. Many important things like the children’s custody rights, the property distribution, [...]

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Factors in Determining Spousal Support in California

Unlike child support, there is no requirement that a court award spousal support (formerly known as alimony) in a divorce in California.  The award of spousal support can be limited in duration, limited in amount or denied altogether, depending on the circumstances of each individual case. In order to determine whether an award of California [...]

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Nassau County Divorce Attorney: Specialists in Divorce Law

by Daniel Smith Nassau County is located in the State of New York. Divorce cases in Nassau County are therefore contested as per the divorce laws in the state by a Nassau County divorce attorney. The first requirement for the proper filing of a divorce case is that of residency. It is for the parties [...]

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Using Mediation to Avoid the High Costs of Divorce

In recent years mediation has been used as an effective alternative to litigation in numerous areas of law including family law.

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What’s the difference between a divorce and a legal separation?

The biggest difference between separation and divorce is that a divorce legally and permanently terminates the marriage, whereas legal separation…

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3 Biggest Myths About Spousal Support in California

Common Misconceptions About Alimony

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Divorce Software

Contains all the background information, detailed instructions, and fill-in-the-blank legal forms necessary to prepare and file an uncontested divorce.

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What Is An “Agreed” or “Uncontested” Divorce?

While some divorces result in lengthy and sometimes ugly court battles, many divorces are actually quite civil and even mutually sought.

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Is Property that I Acquired During a Separation Considered “Marital Property”?

The Status of Property Acquired Before the Divorce is Final

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Does Fault Affect an Alimony Award?

The Effects of Divorce Fault on Spousal Support

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Book Review: The Complete Gay Divorce

Book Review: The Complete Gay Divorce:What Happens When Gay and Lesbian Couples Call it Quits?

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Is Mediation For You?

The Real Benefits of Mediating Your Divorce

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What happens if my partner and I can't agree on every issue in a collaborative divorce meeting?

What do you do if you can’t agree on everything in a collaborative divorce?

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How Do I File for Divorce if My Spouse is Missing?

Moving Forward with Divorce if Your Spouse is MIA

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5 Reasons Collaborative Divorce Might Work For You

How To Decide What’s Best For You And Your Spouse

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How Can I Be Sure My Partner Won’t Hide Assets in a Collaborative Divorce?

Dealing with the hiding of assets in a collaborative divorce.

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Defenses to Divorce

Affirmative Defenses to At-Fault Divorce Allegations

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Book Review: Divorce Without Court: A Guide to Mediation & Collaborative Divorce

Tips to Help You And Your Spouse Part Ways Amicably

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How Do I Change My Name for Tax Purposes?

Using the Same Name on Your Social Security Card and Tax Return

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What is No Fault and At Fault Divorce?

Who’s to Blame? Does is Matter, Legally?

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When a Do-It-Yourself Divorce is Right For You

How To Know If You Can Do Your Own Divorce

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Can I Get Alimony If My Marriage Is Annulled?

Annulling a Marriage; Forfeiting Spousal Support

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What Are The Grounds For an Annulment?

Qualifying to Erase Your Marriage

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Divorce Laws in All 50 States

Click Your State’s Link to View the Divorce Statutes that Affect You

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What's the Difference Between Divorce and Annulment?

Dissolving a Marriage Versus Erasing it From Record

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The Divorce Process

The Basic Legal Steps of a Dissolution

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What is a Bifurcated Divorce?

Splitting Your Dissolution Case into Parts

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Do You Qualify For An Annulment?

Nullity Is Not An Option For Everyone

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Collaborative Divorce

An Alternative Approach to Conflict Resolution

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Mediation

An Alternative to Divorce Litigation

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Book Review: Taking Space

How to Use Separation to Explore the Future of Your Relationship

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Legal Separation

Legally Splitting Without Divorcing

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Types of Alimony

The Different Ways You Can Pay Spousal Support

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Separation Agreements

How To Draft Your Own Agreement of Separation

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Types of Separation

Understanding Your Options When You Decide to Split Up

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How is alimony and property division handled in a same-sex divorce?

Traditional Alimony Laws May Not Apply

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What is Palimony?

Financial Obligations for Unmarried Couples Who Split

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How Is Child Support and Property Division Handled in an Annulment?

Distributing Property and Determining Custody After Annulling a Marriage

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What happens to joint property when the engagement is called off?

How Joint Property is Split When an Engagement Ends

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Can I Choose Any Name?

Restrictions on Your New Name Choice

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Common-Law Name Change

Can I Change My Last Name Without Dealing With the Court?

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Book Review: Should I Stay Or Go?

How Controlled Separation Can Save Your Marriage

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Lower Your Chances of Divorce

Tips to Keep Your Marriage Going Strong

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West Virginia Marriage Laws

Statutes and Laws Specific to Marriage in West Virginia

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Wyoming Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Wyoming

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Wisconsin Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Wisconsin

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West Virginia Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of West Virginia

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Washington DC Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the District of Columbia

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Washington Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Washington

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Virginia Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Virginia

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Can I Change My Child's Last Name After Divorce?

How to Legally Change a Dependent Minor’s Last Name After Divorce

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Vermont Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Vermont

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Utah Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Utah

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Texas Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Texas

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The Effects of Divorce on Children

How to Help Your Child Adjust to the Transition of Divorce

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Tennessee Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Tennessee

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Divorce Glossary

Understanding Legal Terminology Related to Divorce

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South Dakota Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of South Dakota

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South Carolina Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of South Carolina

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Rhode Island Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Rhode Island

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Pennsylvania Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Pennsylvania

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Oregon Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Oregon

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Oklahoma Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of Oklahoma

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North Dakota Divorce Laws

Divorce Law Basics in the State of North Dakota

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